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I meant to answer sooner, but I wanted to think about it before sending a rushed note.
I do understand why that felt awkward, and I probably would have reacted the same way in the moment.
Sometimes a conversation lands wrong even when nobody meant any harm, and then it stays in the air longer than it should.
My usual approach is to give it a little space, then come back with a calm voice and a simple point instead of carrying every detail back into it.
If it helps, I can also be there when you bring it up, or I can help you shape what you want to say so it feels natural.
I think people respond better when they can tell you're being steady rather than trying to win the exchange.
Either way, I don't think this has to turn into something bigger unless everyone keeps circling it.

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I think the hardest part was not knowing whether to say something right away or wait until everyone had cooled off a bit.
Usually I try to notice which version of me is about to reply, because if I answer from irritation I end up creating extra cleanup later.
It might be simpler to keep it short and specific, just enough to explain your side without reopening everything else around it.
I also find that asking one honest question can shift the tone faster than making a full case for yourself.
If the whole thing still feels strange tomorrow, maybe suggest a quick check-in instead of turning it into a long exchange.
People are often more reasonable when they don't feel trapped in a big serious moment.
Let me know if you want me to read over your message before you send it, because I'm happy to help tighten the wording.